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That's why it takes so much longer for me to get turned on than him, think the women.
That's why she doesn't want sex as readily as I do and is so much harder to figure out, think the men.
Hey, they both think, we're just wired differently - this isn't my fault!
Nope, nobody's at fault here. It's just plain old biology that gives men quicker access to their desire and a relatively straightforward way to satisfy it, while women need time and stimuli to get fired up and achieve pleasure through a wide and sometimes elusive range of experiences.
Can I get the instruction manual for this? One man joked.
Sorry, I laughed, there isn't one; every woman is unique. But just knowing this difference exists and allowing more time to explore and learn from each other is a great first step!